This was not intended for use with child molestation cases but found it to be a pretty powerful tool regardless.

ACCEPTANCE

Sometimes you may feel as thought you are stuck – you can’t do the things that you want to with you life because of memories, symptoms, thoughts, feelings, and life circumstances that are either a direct or indirect result of the abuse.  You may feel as though you are losing your whole life to the abuse.  The following are acceptance statements that you can keep to help you through difficult times.
 

☼	I accept the abuse as part of my life story.  My journey in working to get over the effects of this abuse has made me strong.  Now I am in charge of my life.  I am going to do whatever I need to do to make my life the way I want it to be.
☼	The things that happened to me were terrible and should never have happened to me.  But they did.  Now it is time to get my life back – to be the kind of person I want to be and do the things I want to do.
☼	The abuse happened a long time ago.  I am no longer being abused.  I am no longer being abused.  I am in charge of my life and I am doing the things I want to do.
☼	The abuse was then.  This is now.  I am doing good work in getting over the effects of the abuse.  I am ready to move on with my life.  http://www.turningpointservices.org/Domestic%20Violence%20-%20Acceptance%20vs%20Blame.htm